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Masturbation FAQ

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What is masturbation?

As a matter of meaning, masturbation is a sexual activity involving only one person. It is sexual sefl-stimulation, often, but not necessarily, involving the manipulation of sexual organs with the use of fingers or hands. In the USA this is commonly known as “jerking off”. In the UK the term “wanking” is common.

How does a man masturbate?

The most common method is the use of a hand wrapped around the erect penis using an up and down motion until ejaculation. Another common method is to rub the erect penis against something, such as a pillow, until ejaculation. While male masturbation tends to focus only on the penis, it is not uncommon for it to be accompanied by stimulation of other areas.

How does a woman masturbate?

More commonly by caressing and massaging the clitoris with fingers until orgasm. The stimulation is often accompanied by similar caressing, massaging, or touching of other sensitive areas, such as the breasts and parts of the vagina. The insertion of phallic shapped objects into the vagina using an in and out motion is also common method of self stimulation.

How often does a man masturbate?

Studies on the subject date back decades and have been conducted around the world. They show that 95% of men have masturbated. Masturbation in males begins quite young (pre-teen) and continues into adulthood. Often after a life long mate has been found, and in addition to conjugal sex. The schedule was shouwn to vary greatly between individuals, from every few months to several times a day.

How often does a woman masturbate?

Studies conducted around the world show that as many as 65% of all women, have masturbated. Masturbation in females begins at later age (when compared to that of males). The need for self-stimulation is typically less as is the frequency. Women tend to masturbate more sporadically.

What does term “Blue Balls” mean?

An erection is caused be the filling of the penis with blood. The pressure necessary to generate an erection comes from sexual arousal or “sexual tension”. An orgasm is often described as the release of that tension. The continual tension without relief (orgasm) in males can cause a condition called “Blue Balls”. It is quite painful which, makes achieving an orgasm very difficult. To make matters worst making the erection go away without an orgasm almost impossible. Urban legend suggests that a cold shower may help to curb the tension, but as any one who has ever had a case of “Blue Balls” can attest, only time will help. The condition generally effect young men as they often put themselves in situations of great sexual tension where they know chances are they will not receive the stimulation necessary to achieve an orgasm. The good news however is that the condition doesn’t last there are no known side effects.

Can I masturbate too much?

The probable answer is no. Generally the human body creates its own limitations. For an undetermined period of time after an orgasm, the body is satisfied, in males the more they masturbate the greater the length of time before they fell the urge to masturbate again. Sexual tension during masturbation can make you unaware of excessive friction, which can create blisters. You may not mind the excessive friction during masturbation because of the desire to reach an orgasm. Only after release may you realize that the friction may have been too much. The best way to ensure that this does not happen is to use lubrication during masturbation.

If I masturbate with someone of the same sex does that mean that I am gay or lesbian?

A person, whi is gay, may very well have straight relationship and the same can be said of a heterosexual person. Typically no single event will determine, or can change our orientation. Our sexuality is determined quite early in our lives. The desire to share a sexual experience with someone of the same sex alone does not make you gay or lesbian. There may be reasons outside of homosecuality why you may want to share an experience with someone of the same sex.

Is my penis large enough, does size matter?

Penis size only matters to those for which it matters. In other words if you are a porno star, then it probably matters. However in terms of actual functionality, the average, is plenty. That is not to say that if you are under the average you are not adequate or that if you are above average all women you have sex with will automatically be satisfied. If the girls you know only judge you by penis size, then to them it matters. Most women agree that it does not matter. Biologically speaking, the range of adequacy is wide. The average adult male penis is 5 to 7 inches when fully erect. Unless you are less than 4 inches or more than 8 most women will not be able to tell the difference in terms of actual performance. An experienced lover can do as much or more with a under average penis than an amateur can do with a large one.

All my friends masturbate until orgasm, how come I can not?

First and foremost, men of all ages lie or overstate the thruth about their sexuality. When it comes to masturbation, they tend to exaggerate. Puberty arrives at slightly different times for each individual typically between 11 and 13 years of age. At some point in that period if young man may have the urge to masturbate. Initially as they stimulate their penis they may ajaculate. At first the ejaculation may be a very light, clear liquid, which looks like water but has the consistency of syrup. As a young man masturbates his ejaculation will became thicker and with the consistency of oil and the color of milk.

Can I get sick if I eat my own cum?

Cum is a medium for the storage of sperm. Nothing contained in it is toxic in any way. You’re more likely to get sick just from the thought of eating it.

Will I go blind, bald or insane from masturbating? Will I get hairy palms?

Some religions condemn the act of self-stimulation because it is a form of achieving gratification outside the need for procriation. Outside of religious beliefs, there are no known side effects to masturbation. None, zip, zilch, nada!

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